Wednesday, 17 December 2008
OMG We are getting married next year
Head in gear
Thursday, 4 December 2008
Speaking of munch being intuative
You've got to have a dream
I've been thinking about munch loving the island and its very weird when I go there I can always feel mum close to me (even if she is wetting herself watching us get p**s wet though in the tent) its like that's where her spirit is and of course I'm probably right she did love the place, so this is why I think munch is drawn there so much, she is very intuitive and I like to think she feels mum too.
Tuesday, 2 December 2008
Down on the farm
Monday, 1 December 2008
Missing You
I suppose everything is taking a back seat cos of Christmas anyway so its OK. At the moment I'm looking at who comes to Cerrig with us and who sleeps where and the places nearby for everyone else. Also people keep being added dropped and re added to the guest list.
We also need to compose an email to Dylan about the Sea Zoo and its facilities.
Wednesday, 26 November 2008
omg will the craft obsession ever end
here are more fabric flowers - as if the world needs more! and here is a tutorial on how to turn a sweater into a bag (and then stick a fabric flower on it!)
Tuesday, 25 November 2008
Behind the scenes
OH and we went to Plas Newydd to pay some money and we had to go th Lord Angleseys flat and creep around it was like being back stage in a theatre so cool. The music room was set up for a wedding the following day and munch got insanely excited.
SUPERBLOG
We definitely want to stay with our friends and family at cerrig y barcud having met the owner Ann Marie who is easily the nicest person I’ve ever met and seen the beautiful cottages it was a no brainer, we had to stay there. This means that we need to stay in the area of Llanfair pg really so this rules out Oak Lodge where I really wanted to go originally which is a shame as they were going to do us a bbq which is what munch wanted. This leaves us with Gwesty Carrig Mon which I have to say we both loved but not to sure on prices etc.
However the delightful Ann Marie had a suggestion…Around the corner from her place is Anglesey Sea Zoo owned by her friend Dylan, her idea was if we were looking for something unique why not go and ask him if he would do a wedding reception at the zoo. This as you can imagine is right up our alley and off we went. The Sea Zoo was closed but we found Dylan who took us to the room the reception would be in, they had never done a wedding before and he seemed really keen, they have a liquor license and a music license and the room holds 80 people. Perfect he would even leave the sea zoo open for guests to wander around. Sounds fantastic right! We loved him and decided we wanted it there immediately. Now I’m not so sure I cant see a wedding reception being held in that room, I cant see where there would be a dance floor, I’m concerned we would run out of alcohol and there is nowhere to get any, there is a shop next to the restaurant what happens to all that stuff…I have loads of questions but I cant think of them now, I love the idea and its right near Cerrig but I just cant picture it.
Thursday, 20 November 2008
ribbon stuff from martha
Ideas
Ev mentioned on her visit that she went to a wedding where the couple gave as a favour a CD of songs that meant something to them we are definaely going to do that. I also found a gorge ring cushion on mylifeexamined.blogspot she also said about the men wearing coloured socks to match the bridesmaids which I think will be really cute.
Wednesday, 19 November 2008
New Sites
Style Me Pretty and Cheap Wedding Blog loads of tips and ideas, great to have something new to look at.
This is also really good its Uk Top Ten planning sites loads of info about all sorts of things.
Monday, 17 November 2008
CALL OFF THE SEARCH
Cerrig y Barcud
Munch has pointed out that perfect would have to be somewhere that also allowed campers and tents which is very true...I really just think now that oak lodge would be so much easier...I hope we have a decision on friday! Then again if we do what else is there to think about...
More good sites
This place could be an option too, Trewan Sands
Oh my god I want to have it here in fact i want to live here i love it so gorgeous
Erm munch you really need to look at this
Sunday, 16 November 2008
Hope for the guests
Saturday, 15 November 2008
Cant think of a title
Tears of Joy
OOOH they are that price for 20 I'm havin em
Friday, 14 November 2008
Love Martha
So many of my sentences these days begin with Martha says....
Thursday, 13 November 2008
Riding and accom
It is in the village of Dwyran. other accom that i've found nearby is Y Potel Inc which also has a massive garden so could be a possible. Brynsiencyn is the other village where there is some accom. we really need to check this area out when we go on the 21st. Pen Braint at Penlon, Newborough looks like a good prospect too.
i'm also thinking about large guest houses with big gardens and a large dining room might be a good idea. found Rhianfa but its in bull bay which might be a tad far. Parc yr Odyn in Pentraeth seems big and not too far.
wohoo found a multi purpose site in pentraeth Clai Mawr has a b&B with 2 rooms, statics and pitches for tourers.
Pomegranate
Wednesday, 12 November 2008
Matchbook Notepads
and clever ol me has found an online tutorial here
to buy them from Etsy click on the pics.
Tuesday, 11 November 2008
Love Martha
Glamourous Gowns
Away with words
Flower Stationery
Note How-To:
Keepsake Pockets
A Purple Wedding
Flower-Topped Fantasy
Use a pretty monogrammed cake as the pedestal for a cluster of anemones, tulips, lilacs, sweet peas, stephanotis, and allium tied with luxurious taffeta ribbon. Before the first slice is cut, the bride can retrieve the bouquet for the ceremonial toss. By Wendy Kromer.
Chocolate Blooms
These truffles, made from a rich chocolate ganache dusted in cocoa powder and adorned with miniature blooms, are perfect served after dinner or on a dessert buffet. After all, why not let them eat cake and rich confections, too?
Sequined Bouquet
Cool silver makes bold fuschia shine even brighter! This bouquet combines sweet peas, roses, and feathery astilbe with helichrysum and beaded leaves. To give it a magical shimmer, pink sequins affixed to wire stems are interspersed among the blooms.
In a table setting that evokes an English garden, roses and flowering oregano in mauve tones contrast with succulents (brown-tinged echeverias and trailing crassula) and curly fiddleheads.
Decorate groomsmen's lapels with fresh and fabric boutonnieres. The leaves are made of handsome textiles, the patterns mimicking the veins of real leaves. To play on your theme, match the contrasting green sprigs to the bridal bouquet.
UPDATE
tutorial for truffles here
yellow and grey moodboard
Anyhow here is the mood board I came up with...
Here are the websites where you can find more info about the pics
partyperfectblog.blogspot.com
thoughtfulday.blogspot.com
Others are courtesy of Martha and Snippet and Ink
Monday, 10 November 2008
In the Pink
Munch has also sorted out the monthly payments to Plas Newydd and we can do our own champagne which is just brilliant. So well done munch! The two most important aspects of the day are sorted.
Top 10 Wedding Don'ts
Pick it based on how fun it is. Seriously. People will enjoy having a good time more than they will enjoy looking at a stunning vista. Tonight's wedding was at a children's science museum. They rented out the whole place, and we were free to romp around like kids (if only I had worn shorts under my dress!). We played in the bubble room, climbed on the vertical maze, and talked in the whisper phone.
9. Don't wear an uncomfortable dress.
You don't really need to live out some warped princess fairy tale. The more comfortable you are, the more beautiful you will look. You need to be able to walk and move and dance around your wedding. The bride at tonight's wedding wore a random sun dress with colored stripes. Was it cute? Yes. Was it spectacular? Not particularly. Did she look spectacular anyway? Absolutely. She was radiant (not because of some mineral make-up). She was deeply content. The dress, hair, and make-up were irrelevant.
8. Don't let anyone put fondant on your wedding cake.
Admit it. It's disgusting. It has the texture (and taste) of plastic. And what the cake tastes like is more important than what it looks like. At tonight's wedding they had several real cakes. Real ones. They were absolutely delicious. I was forced to eat two pieces.
7. Don't let someone else's voice dominate your ceremony.
It's your wedding. It's about you and your future partner and the coming together of your lives. Why should someone else talk all about it? At tonight's wedding, the bride and groom walked out together. The bride's sister did a brief introduction and then left the bride and groom alone up there. They talked about each other and then to each other. It lasted only about seven minutes, but it was the most sincere and touching ceremony I have ever witnessed. Tears streamed down my cheeks (and that never happens to me at weddings!).
6. Don't hire an obnoxious photographer.
The experience is more important than pictures of the experience (and you'll have plenty of pictures anyway if you just ask your friends and family to share their photos). At receptions, I honestly avoid dancing next to the bride or groom because the photographer is always right there with an interrogation bulb flashing in your face. Argh! At tonight's wedding, in the absence of such a photographer, it occurred to me just how annoying they really are!
5. Don't hire a DJ.You don't really need one.
Either have a live band or hook up an iPod. You just need good, danceable music. Well, if you do hire a DJ, just use him/her to monitor the mood of the crowd and select the most appropriate song. Whatever you do, don't let them speak. They really don't contribute anything to the experience. At tonight's wedding, we just danced to some classic dance tunes coming from an iPod.
4. Don't serve a sit-down dinner.
Sit-down dinners are long, stuffy, and contrived. People have to be assigned to tables. If they aren't interested in the people or the conversation at their table, they have to suffer through it. It's just not necessary. At tonight's wedding, we just served ourselves buffet style. We could eat when we were hungry, we could go back for leftovers, and we could sit next to whomever we wanted.
3. Don't spend an insane amount of money on the alcohol.
Beer and wine are fine. Seriously. People can still get their drink on with those classics. The addition of a signature drink (they did Grandma's Punch) is definitely cool, but you don't need to blow your savings on something that hinders people's ability to remember the event.
2. Don't invite people who aren't close to you.
The more random family friends you invite, the more uncomfortable you're going to feel. Don't feel obligated to invite anyone you don't want to. Invite people you're close to and leave it at that. At tonight's wedding, it was very clear that only the most important people were invited. And the atmosphere felt a lot more intimate and comfortable because of it.
1. Don't obsess about details.
Wedding colors don't really matter. Flowers don't matter all that much. Napkins don't matter. Remember that a wedding is a public declaration and celebration of your mutual love and commitment amidst a community of support. Focus on those things. Write your own vows. Make yourself and everyone else as comfortable as possible so you can really celebrate. And only invite a community of support.
Courtesy of 2000 dollar budget wedding
Sunday, 9 November 2008
Letter to the Brides
Letter to the Bride
Dearest Bride-to-Be:The 12-18 months of wedding planning will pass in a matter of hours or days. When it’s all said and done, the photos will be the primary artifact remaining.
My wish for you—when you look back at those photos—is for you to think:
Fully present in the moment.
Basking in it. Soaking it in.
I was not saturated in stress.
My shoes and dress were comfortable enough for dancing. My beauty radiated out of me; it was not applied to me.
I got to spend quality time with my friends and family. I was myself, not a show. In fact, I was my fullest expression of self.
I do not remember whether the invitations were letterpress or whether the flowers at the ceremony were the same ones at the reception.
The wedding favors or the fanciness of the food did not make memories. The sincerity did. The connection did. The time together did.
It did not matter whether every last detail conformed to the signature colors. Instead of saying, “What a beautiful bouquet,” the guests said, “What a beautiful love.”
Saturday, 8 November 2008
Button Details
As metaphors for marriage go, buttons make an ideally humble one: By joining two things together, they keep you warm and protected. Always useful, they're often beautiful to boot -- which may be why grandmas everywhere once kept jars of them
Pillow Talk Mismatched pearl buttons, vintage and new, lend this ring pillow (above) a homespun note. Simple to make from two pieces of felt and a bit of polyfill stuffing, its edges cut with scallop shears, it even incorporates a hint of "something bleu." Gold bands by Cartier.
around. And while they may not be heirlooms, they're certainly keepsakes, imparting a sense of attachment to the past. All of which makes incorporating buttons into your wedding as adornments and favors an especially sweet notion.
Peruse these pages of ideas, and we bet you'll be hooked.
Oh No More Fabric Flowers
"Fabric flowers make a pretty, wilt-proof way for guests to find their seats and then sport as corsages or boutonnieres. Simply use floral tape to attach a brooch pin to the stem of a fabric flower (these are from Dulken & Derrick). Have a calligrapher pen names onto strips of card stock, then punch small holes on one end, and slip pins through."
DIY Ideas
A wedding program extra
Homemade taffeta wedding program jackets
cute and funky thank you postcards
Make Patterned paper bookmark favours
Make your own unique wire card holders
Fabric Flower - again!
image and how to instructions can be found at http://www.marthastewart.com
Thursday, 6 November 2008
New Mood board
Todays Musings
I have sat and done a breakdown of prices only estimations of what things will cost
Plas £1235, Photographer £1000, Car Free, Cake £100, Stationery £100, Clothes £600, Shoes £200, Hair Free, BBQ £100, Beers and Food £500, Rings £200, Flowers £50, Stereo and Karaoke £250. Obviously we are doing most of the work ourselves so this can all change depending on what we have to buy to make stuff.
Things we don't know about costing wise are the registrar, the reception venue, accommodation, and the legal costs of naming ceremony. So in the next couple of weeks we will need to do a reccy and arrange to go to coed cottages , Llandonna, and oak lodge, Also it must be a weekday so we can go to llangefni registry office to check out the procedure. Munch to arrange day off asap so we can call to make appointments.
Also I'm starting to think maybe oak lodge will be cheaper or as cheap considering the hassle, I worked the reception out to about £1000 but that was just a guess we will know more when we visit. So if you look at all the money we would need to spend on buying a BBQ, food, music, drink etc it might be worthwhile having BBQ there, no work for us before or after. I just don't know now. It would mean we would'nt get to make all the delicious food on the mood board.
Also must remember to get Plas stuff out for photographers visit Sunday pm.
Flower Ring Cushion
Wednesday, 5 November 2008
Singing in the rain? (god I hope not!)
nice pics
stencils
Tuesday, 4 November 2008
The Album
Defo the best find so far is this. Basically we fell in love with the coffee book/ magazine layout style wedding album that Damian showed us. But we discussed it and felt that we could really do with cutting back on the photography budget. I had a look around the web and came up with Fotoinsight who produce a really similar product for you from your photos. Obviously with Damian you get his eye for design and style with the layout and with this option the layout is totally down to you but for this price i think i can handle it!
Flower Power - what an obvious title!
also found these other homemade flowers that i thought were worth remembering.
each picture links to its site
Invited to a bit of a do
Black and White Mood Board
White dress by Stewart Parvin at Weddingo
Polka Dot dress via http://mygirldresses.blogspot.com/2007_07_01_archive.html
Group of men via Snippet and Ink
POSY via- http://art-candy.blogspot.com/2008/05/nice-day-for-black-and-white-wedding.html
Ring by DiamondHarmony.com
Cake - wherebridesgo.com
Links for other images to follow
I'd rather spend time than money!
We finally have our samples of invites and save the dates from the lovely ladies we met at the fayre, they are gorgeous but I think munch really wants to do them herself and frankly I think thats a great idea most things we want to do ourselves so why not this too, a really personal affair. This way we can totally stay true to our theme...once we can decide on what that is!
Things to remember
fabric flowers
More Moods
Monday, 3 November 2008
Location, location, location
Well today we have been working on the wedding all day, we have looked at dresses, shoes, cakes, BBQ food, accommodation, reception, photographers, you name it ideas have been batted around, completely changed and totally re thought.
We have decided that Kacey should wear a little white dress as you can see below.
We have worked out with lovely Barbara that we can pay Plas Newyyd monthly which should really help us out.
Also I know what we said about not compromising on having Damion as a photographer but I really think we need to. We simply cannot justify 2 grand when there is a local photographer that I think is really good for half for the price, I'm leaving it with munch to decide.
We are looking at hiring a country home for the reception where alot of people can sleep and we can have the BBQ in the grounds, its very close to Plas Newydd so that's a bonus. Also there is a campsite with cottages to rent that I love but its an hour away. I think we need to go and view these locations as soon as possible. In case they get booked up.
So yes alot has gone on today, I also think I want to do a black and white mood board as I've seen some shoes I really want!
Food Mood Board
All the food pictured is from BBC Good Food.
Current Definites Mood Board
Stuff we have decided so far:
Colours: Aubergine & Olive
Theme: Dots & Flowers
Location:
Civil Ceremony - Plas Newydd, Anglesey
Reception - somewhere on Anglesey suitable for a large family barbecue with holiday cottages and other mixed accommodation like static caravans etc. To be catered by the family. Atmosphere like Phil's World Cup Parties.
Munch - Aubergine dress and green chrysanthemum wrist corsage
Kel - Grey halterneck waistcoat suit, aubergine pinstripe if possible. Green and aubergine buttonhole.
Matthew and Lewis - Grey suit with aubergine cravat or tie and waistcoat. Green chrysanthemum buttonhole
Wilson - Green dress and purple chrysanthemum hair corsage.
Kacey - white flower girl dress with aubergine sash in bow at back with front green flower detail
Food & Drink
Cocktails - Mojito and Pink Champagne
Food - BBQ, possibly hog or lamb roast, lots of salads incl artichoke and feta cous-cous and Mandy's homemade coleslaw.
Desert - not decided maybe just wedding cake or other homemade cakes.
Wedding Cake - 3 tier. Bottom tier - white iced with green dots and base aubergine ribbon. Middle tier -Apple white iced and base aubergine ribbon. Top Tier white iced with dotty icing flower and base aubergine ribbon.
Transport
Brian's Silver Audi A5
Sunday, 2 November 2008
Oh my god its 1.30 in the morning and we are still looking at wedding stuff now we are on mens clothes for matt and lew, and have found the perfect waistcoat and scrunchie that will be about £100 for each of the boys. We are thinking grey suits at the moment and oh dear munch has just started sketching button holes...
Sites of the day! 1
www.weddingwardrobe.co.uk
www.oliviamae.com
www.monsoon.co.uk
www.marksandspencers.co.uk
www.twiceasnice.co.uk
www.kissthebride.co.uk
All of the above were to look at dresses and I found some really good options.
I also looked at www.minted.com this is an american stationery company that I love, we have entered a competition to win save the date cards from them.
Lastly munch found www.vistaprint.co.uk that specialise in magnets at an absolutely bargain price of £9.99 for 50 so if we dont win minted comp we will definately be having these.
Also looking at the amazing cakes on AprilReed.com
So Cute
Dress code
Ok so munch has come up with this new colour scheme and although concerned that it might be a little dark for the summer I actually love it love it love it. So now as she sits designing invitations at my side, I get to look at dresses even though I'm not wearing one and would not wear one I still like to look at them. So how's this for Kacey's dress I love Monsoon its the best shop in the world you can buy an outfit for any occasion
UPDATED
Found a much better flower girl dress here
Saturday, 1 November 2008
Aubergine & Olive Mood Board
sources:
row 1 -groom - Photo by Geoff White. Table setting - http://www.kathleendeerydesign.com/ Flowers by Ink and Peat. Dress from House of Brides.
Row 2 - Shoes from Elizabeth Ann Designs. Venue via www.gopetal.com
purple chrysanthemum photo by Laurie Jackson . Tie photo on Snippet and Ink
Row 3 dress from House of Brides. Mojito photography by Paul Shoul . Invite by Jaelyn K Designs Table centre - http://www.kathleendeerydesign.com/ Cake by The Funky Cake Co
Munch's creations
crafty
http://www.squires-shop.com
http://www.thepapermillshop.co.uk
http://www.marthastewart.com/crafts
http://www.vistaprint.co.uk/postcard-magnets.
Putting them on here to help others and remind myself.
We did find a lovely couple at the wedding fayre who have a card shop in Alsager that are making up some samples for us but it might be fun to make our own. It depends on costs cos once you have bought all the card and bits and bobs it may just be cheaper to buy them complete.
Also going to enter competion for some as mentioned on snippet and ink.
Liscence to drive
Ok just a quick thought re the wedding car. I just went to drop off Caits bday card and Bri's car was in the drive and i thought...we are supposed to be saving money so why am i thinking about spending so much (well i dont know how much as it is impossible to get a blooming price from anywhere) when there is sexy new audi right there and thinking about it auntie christine has an audi tt i mean we know plenty of people with money and therefore hot cars so i guess the lovely vintage and the sailing boat have to go...